Seventeen years ago, we celebrated big time. My sister got tshirts for the kids. We had a barbecue at my house and everybody tried a grilled cicada. My sister had in her head that she wanted to grab and grill some at an upcoming office picnic, and she thought she needed to rehearse, to see if it would actually work. So we all tried them. Charred, with hot sauce and salt, with a big beer chaser, I got one mostly down, but it wasn't an experience I am likely to repeat.
Never in a million years could we have pictured, in 2004, what we would be in 2021. We have such a big hole where my sister should be, and yet we are so blessed. And never could we have forecast how the kids turned out. Take a look at those three, and pick the most likely to be working for the Defense Department, for example!
So I had to do Tshirts, of course, and we had a smaller family celebration.
Where will we be in 2038? Will the cicadas adapt to the new, warmer and more volatile world we'll be living in?
Aw, Nan, seeing Mary here and reading your words made me cry. Both with tears of loss, but also gratitude for the family's present well being despite the huge huge hole. sending much love xoxo
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